Its time for another parenting rant- with my daughter re-entering school really school and her own school not being able to follow directions it really alarms me when I keep hearing stories pop up on the news with how seriously insane schools have gotten with their rules. Here's one of the newest articles to pop up today infact: http://now.msn.com/school-says-deaf-boys-name-sign-looks-too-much-like-a-gun Really? Its his name and he's three..it is in no way a gang sign. There was a story a few weeks ago about a young boy again in elementary that was told he had to turn his shirt inside out because it was a certain football team..again, I say really? Oh, and I can't forget about the two little girls I read about last month that got severly sun burned while at a school outting and they weren't allowed to apply sunscreen and the one little girl did have a medical skin condition that was on her file that no one bothered to look at...
These type of stories scare me about putting our little one back into the school world. Yes, she has to go back because we don't have the patience to do homeschool and she needs some speech therapy but seriously, between the news and some personal issues I've heard from my parent friends its pretty scary at the rate that schools want to butt in and conduct business nowadays. What ever happened to being concerned for the child's well being and not having all these rules and regulations that at times really do work against the children and in some cases against the special education children too. Why do we need so many hoops to jump through? Whatever happened to the good old days when you could pack your child a lunch in their Star Wars lunchbox and not worry about someone eyeing up the lunch, taking it away and replacing it with something that your child won't eat in the first place. Whatever happened to schools actually listening to the parents? I again have heard horror stories of parents who have had huge issues with schools not listening and not paying attention to the children in their class. If you are a teacher you should know your students..correct?
I don't ever remember stories like this showing up when I was in school. Kids causing problems sure..but I never remember someone coming around to 'check' on my lunch and I also remember being sent home a few times when I felt fine but because I was a little warm once I got sent to the nurses office they called my Mom. Whatever happened to actually caring about the well being of the children and at least listening to the parents. Infact, the school that we're dealing with now has already said that we are very involved with our child and what happens which I guess not everyone does which again, thats sad. If the parent is trying to be involved in whats happening with the school..yes, you should listen. Then again, I think in general we as a whole feel like we can put rules out everywhere and push off responsiblities elsewhere which isn't right. Whatever happened to the good old days when schools weren't so stuck on rules and regulations and actually cared. Is it insane to think that our schools should care and read the files of our children? How about we get back to teaching and not ruling with an iron fist and while we're at it how about we go back to listening and taking things the parents say into consideration..
Anyways, thats my rant for today..






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