So, as of tomorrow I've been married eight years to the man standing next to me in this picture. Its really rather hard to believe its been eight years but then again, our little one is six. Time flies when you are having fun and yes, even though the ride thus far has been fun I have to say that we've been through a lot in eight years times. Not to mention, this is the longest relationship I've ever had..the relationship before this one lasted three years.
We've been broke, kinda broke, moved(numerous times), one or both or all three of us have been sick..Just last year we had the flu run through the house..Yeah, that was a fun month...NOT! We also made it through me being sick just after my c-section mostly on our own with a little bit of help from our daughters god father, we've lived through the little one having strep throat and her being diagonsed with ashtma(she hasn't had an attack in a little over a year by the way), the hubby having pnuomia, and me having an ear infection. I can't even begin to scratch the surface on everything we've been through in eight years but its a whole lot. Some of is is just BS drama and other stuff is people generally getting sick and all of us being miserable. I even took a tumble down the stairs at one point and hurt my foot...yeah, that was fun! I was basically outta comission for a few days because I couldn't walk.. That was odd for me really, because I'm not used to being the one getting hurt. We've also seen people in our life come and go..some people we've stood by and other people well, we've had our issues with..a few people we still have our issues with but we still stand strong.
"People who are meant to be together...will find a way"..this comes a show that the hubby and I love called "Once upon a time" and it does hold true..We had a crush on each other for years before were even 'offical' or even went on a date. We found a way to be together and even after we got together and people tried to butt into our business too much....we moved..and found a way to get our private time and our space without people butting in.
Not everyday is happy...somedays I want to hurt my husband but at the end of the day..I put up with his crap and he puts up with mine. Sometimes one of us is stubborn and not listening and it takes a bit to wake the person up but so be it..no relationship is perfect... no relationship ever is perfect because we all have our own flaws and quirks that can sometimes get on our partners nerves...but those minutes of hating each other just means that we care. If we don't care about the people in our lives then why do we allow them to drive us crazy? If someone drives you crazy...both good and bad..well, that just means you love 'em. I have a few single friends who seem to think it's easy and simple to keep things going...well, its not..its complicated..sometimes you mesh, sometimes you don't see eye to eye, sometimes you end up at each others throats just because life is too stressful..but hey, at least you still have passion in your hearts enough to fight with each other..
In short, Even though he drives me crazy on certain days..I can't picture my life without him..even his annoying habits I couldn't go through a day without...and I'm pretty certain he can say the same..nothings perfect but I'm glad I've got him. If only everyone could understand that nothing is ever perfect...maybe more people could find their prince charmings. It may not be the standard 'happily ever after' but it's my 'happily ever after'..thats all that matters.



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