So, a few months ago when the hubby was sick one night I picked up my IPad and went searching for something to watch. Itunes didn't have too much rental-wise to offer up to me that week so I went to Netflix to see if I could find a movie much to my surprise I found they had "Buffy the vampire slayer" available on streaming it had been many years since I had seen the series so I decided to click it on and start the journey of the show all over again. Of course, I was quickly yet again hooked and needed my weekly fix of the show which sometimes ended up being four or more episodes on nights when well, I just couldn't sleep. Re-watching this show about ten years older then I was when it orginally aired I found out that there's a lot to take away from the show..Mind you, while I was in the process of re-watching the show I read a blog where someone wrote about 'everything I learned from Buffy' but it was mostly light and kinda funny..I'm going the other way here and going with things that well, some are funny and some are serious lessons the show gives you...so here goes nothing.
1. "You are you"- this echoed through out every season of the show and its really good thing to remember overall. You may be going through a crappy time or things just aren't going right but you are still you at the end of the day and nothing can really take the core and heart away from you..even though the 'big bad' may try to take that away from you..You are still you..you may change a little here or there but under it all..You are still you..Great thing to remember at all times.
2. Parent figures aren't always your parents IE: Giles. Yes, Giles was assigned to Buffy but he ends up being a father figure to not just her but also her friends. He may not be her actual Father but he's the closet thing to a Father that she has and that serves a lot of good overall for everyone in the Scooby gang.
3. Everyone become evil at one point in time. Seriously, everyone whose on the 'good guys' side ends up turning to the evil side at one point or another BUT they all eventually find their way back to the good guy side. We all get lost and sometimes we all turn a bit evil and although that can be held against us..it shouldn't..everyone crosses into that 'darkside' area once in their life.
4. Enemies become friends, friends become lovers then you eventually go back to being enemies IE: Cordelia. She's not always the good guy and on their side but she does eventually cross over and get involved with Xander and for a while she's on the good side of things but eventually kind of runsaway and becomes not best friends with any of them anymore. After she leaves she ends working with Angel and she is still on their side to a point but she's not directly involved with them..Oh and Faith..You can't forget her..She's the one of the best characters that goes back and forth from friend to foe.
5. Sometimes having a good heart is a super power within itself IE: Xander. Its clear through that he has a good heart and within the college season when they morph and give powers to Buffy he is the heart of the powers. Xander even uses his good heart to talk Willow down from being evil. Overall he's really the heart of group and trying his best to keep everyone safe..even if him keeping people safe is him being a little overprotective at times.
6. Love and Anger are two powerful things. Two examples of this: When Tara is shot and Willow goes off the deepend. Her love for Tara gave her power..bad power because she really did love Tara and couldn't take the heartache. It was also part anger because she was shot and couldn't bring her back. Then, look at Buffy and Spike in the last season when Spike tells her she is 'the one thing I'm sure of' what he said to her and the love he has for her gave her the power to continue and not quit.
7. If I'm ever to be cursed I want it to be by a singing Demon- "Once more with feeling"...Need I say more! Sure, you may be singing your TMI but personally I'd much rather be singing and dancing my TMI then not singing and dancing.
8. Do things your own way- The high counsel is down on Buffy the entire show and sometimes say they won't help her because her ways are not 'by the book'. You don't have to do everything by the book- half the time Buffy continued to live because she didn't do things by the book. Her ways were never wrong they were just her ways. You don't and shouldn't have to live life by the book. Sometimes not doing things by the book will be more successful then following the book.
9. You can find the one person who really loves you within someone who claims to hate you IE: Spike. They start out as enemies and don't even like each other but really, thats just a weird form of flirting and he has indeed always loved her probably moreso then Angel ever did. Sometimes that person who hates you is just scared to admit it that they like you because they broke into your school and tried to kill you and your friends.
10. Sometimes you do needs friends IE: The Scooby gang. Buffy continues to live longer then most slayers because of her friends who look out for her and help her solve problems..Sometimes friends can keep you alive and grounded.
11. Trust your instincts- people will tell you all the time that you are doing wrong..This happens a lot in season seven where people just tell Buffy she is wrong and that her instincts are wrong but in reality she ends up being right and knowing her instincts..Don't let people tell you otherwise..sometimes your gut is right.
12. Don't judge others when you've made equally messed up choices- Xander and Buffy in season six when he gives her a hard time about being with Spike when he had recently left Anya at the wedding..Yeah, if your bad decisions are still fresh in the minds of others its really not fair to critize others for what you may see as bad choices..We all make messed up choices at the end of the game so its best to keep your mouth at times..that is unless you are a perfect human and have never made a mistake...ever.
13. Becareful what you wish for- The vengence demons! Yes, sometimes when you say "I wish" and you get your wish it may end up being a twisted version of your wish that you end up not wanting in the first place..Those two little words can be evil..Watch your mouth when you "I wish that.."
14. Sometimes in order to be an adult you have to be on your own- When Buffy's mom dies and she's left on her own its a whole new world..then this happens again when Giles goes back to England BUT once she's left alone she learns how to become the woman she is and how to take care of herself. You can't get anywhere constantly being under your parents wing..branch out, see the world and do things for yourself.
15. People will always tell you whats best for you but it might not be the best for you- Spike against everyone..When people find out that they've been involved a lot of people freak and at one point it is arranged for Spike to be killed so that he is not a 'liablity' when infact, he was the warrior that they needed and the person Buffy needed the most. People will tell you till their blue in the face thats best for you for only you know what's best for you..
16. The quiets ones are the ones to look out for IE Willow..She's always the quiet and meek one BUT she took her time and by the end of the series is just as powerful if not more powerful then Buffy herself. She can also be as evil as the best of them as well if she made that choice..Just because you are quiet and meek doesn't mean that you won't ever have power of your own.
17. Becareful what you say because the person could take it to heart and do it- IE: Buffy telling Spike over and over again how he's souless..so, he gets a soul.
18. Leaders aren't born they are made- Buffy..Watch the entire series and this is very true..She starts as a scared teenage but eventually knows how to lead her army, make hard choices and lead! It took many years for her to get to that point but she wasn't born that way.
19. If a fortune teller or seer tells you something..believe it! Look at the last season especially with the little girl who just saw things coming in the future..like her death..everything she said was right and right on. Then, there's that demon that tells Anya her time will come soon enough..he was well, right..
20. Sometimes you can't stop things from happening- back to the girl who saw the future in the last season..Yep, she saw her death and everything was done to stop the death but it still happened anyways..sometimes no matter what you do or the effort you put in the end result will always remain the same.
21. Regardless of if you believe it or not..you CAN make a difference..Back to the last season where ALL the slayers are activated..the one small group of people did change the world..it didn't happen over night but they were able to change it all and change the rules.
Okay, so there ya have it..I'll do a similar blog once I'm done re-watching "Angel" and since I have recently finished "Buffy" well, I am onto "Angel" next.
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